September 23rd, 2020. A quiet house in Wakarusa, Indiana. A 77-year-old man lies in bed, and beside him sits the woman who has spent 7 years relearning how to love someone who no longer remembers being loved back. Outside, nobody’s filming. There’s no banquet hall, no cameras, no rows of folding chairs.
50 years earlier, this same man stood on a stage in New York and said four words that made a room full of professional football players weep. “I love Brian Piccolo.” Millions have heard that sentence. It’s been quoted in a movie, in Hall of Fame speeches, in documentaries for over half a century. By the end of his life, Gale Sayers couldn’t recall the stage, couldn’t recall the speech.
Some days couldn’t recall the name of the friend he once begged an entire room to love. This is the part football never puts in the highlight reel. What history remembers is the fastest, most electrifying running back the NFL ever produced. A man so respected he became the youngest player ever inducted into the Hall of Fame.
What it leaves out is what actually happened to that man’s mind, quietly, over the last decade of his life. And the fact that the very sport that made him a legend is the reason, according to his own doctors, that he eventually forgot he ever was one. To understand how far that fall really was, you have to go back to where the legend started.
Gale Sayers grew up in Omaha, Nebraska, the son of a mechanic in a family stacked with athletes. His older brother ran track at a world-class level. His younger brother would go on to play running back in the pros himself. By his senior year of high school, Gale had set a state record in the long jump, almost as a footnote to his football career.
Because by then, everyone in the state already knew what he could do with a ball under his arm. At the University of Kansas, he became a two-time consensus All-American, once ripping off a 99-yard run against Nebraska. A run so long, the record books literally have no room for anyone to beat it.
They called him the Kansas Comet there, and the nickname followed him for the rest of his life because fast was never a strong enough word for what he did to a football field. In 1965, the Chicago Bears drafted him fourth overall, the same draft class that gave them a ferocious linebacker named Butkus at number three. Sayers didn’t ease into the league, he exploded into it.
His rookie season, he scored 22 touchdowns, a rookie record that still stands today, 60 years later, including six touchdowns in a single game, a mark no player in NFL history has ever beaten and no one has even matched since. He racked up over 2,200 all-purpose yards before he turned 23. Dick Butkus, who would spend the next several years trying and failing to bring him down in practice, later admitted he hadn’t even seen him play in person before that rookie season.
He’d only seen highlight reels and said the real thing was somehow even better than the film. For three seasons, nothing could touch him. Then, in November of 1968, something did. A 49ers defensive back named Kermit Alexander hit Sayers low on a wide running play at Wrigley Field. Teammates who were there still describe it decades later, his leg dangling as they helped him off the field.
The stadium gone silent in the particular way stadiums go silent when everyone realizes they just watched something they wish they hadn’t. The ligaments in his right knee were torn. His season was over and the running style that had made him untouchable, that ability to cut like he had eyes on the side of his head, was gone with it, permanently, in a single play.
His roommate, a fullback named Brian Piccolo, spent that entire winter pushing him through a brutal rehabilitation, showing up day after day, refusing to let his friend accept the injury as the end of anything. It worked in a way almost nobody expected. In his very first preseason game back, Sayers took the opening kickoff and ran it 94 yards against the Washington Redskins in Vince Lombardi’s first game as their head coach.
Welcome back. And when the real season started, he led the entire NFL in rushing again. Not with his old style, because that style no longer existed in his body, but by grinding out yards between the tackles. A completely different runner wearing the same number on the same legs that used to make defenders look foolish.
He was named the league’s comeback player of the year. It remains one of the most quietly remarkable seasons in NFL history, and almost nobody remembers it because of what happened next. That same season, Piccolo pulled himself out of a game gasping for air, and doctors found cancer in his chest.
Sayers stayed by his bedside through rounds of surgery and bad news. He donated blood, and in May of 1970, he stood at a banquet in New York to accept an award for his own courageous comeback from that knee injury, and instead handed the entire moment to his dying friend. “I love Brian Piccolo,” he said, “and I’d like all of you to love him, too.” You already know that story.
We told it here, and it’s the reason this channel exists at all. What almost nobody remembers is what else happened to Gale Sayers that same brutal year. That summer, in a preseason game, his left knee gave way. He tried to play through it, limped through the season opener, sat out, came back, and reinjured it chasing a fumble in week four.
Surgery ended his season after just two games. There would be no repeat of the 1969 miracle. The body that had already reinvented once simply didn’t have a second reinvention left in it. He attempted one final comeback in 1971 that never really took, and after fumbling twice on three carries in a 1972 preseason game, he retired days later.
He was 29 years old, an age when most great running backs are only just entering their prime. In the span of about 2 years, Gale Sayers had watched his best friend die and his only career quietly end, and both losses happened while country was still applauding him for a speech about somebody else’s courage, never suspecting how much courage he was spending off camera just to keep standing upright through his own.
Here’s what almost nobody talks about because it doesn’t fit neatly into a football story. After retirement, Sayers didn’t disappear into nostalgia or highlight reel appearances. He worked in the athletic department at Kansas. He became an athletic director at Southern Illinois University. He worked as a stock broker.
He built a computer supply company from nothing into a technology consulting firm serving Fortune 1000 companies. And quietly, without press releases or cameras, he and his wife Ardith spent decades funding something that had nothing to do with football at all, an adoption center in the Chicago suburbs specifically built to find homes for African-American children nobody else was prioritizing, and an after-school program on Chicago’s West Side for kids who needed tutoring and mentoring far more than they needed to watch another old highlight reel. The same man who once said, “I am third, the Lord first, my friends second, myself last,” spent the next four decades of his life quietly proving he meant it, long after anyone in that banquet hall was watching or filming. Then, in September of 2013, at 70 years old and still in visibly good physical shape, Gale Sayers was diagnosed with dementia. Here’s the twist almost nobody saw coming. A doctor at the Mayo Clinic
examined him and confirmed, according to his wife, that his football career was very likely the cause, not the dramatic highlight-reel concussions people usually picture, but something quieter and far more constant, repeated thousands of times across seven professional seasons and a college career before that.
“It wasn’t so much getting hit in the head,” Ardyth would later explain, “it’s just the shaking of the brain when they took him down with the force they play the game in.” The very hits that built the legend, the ones fans in Chicago used to stand and cheer for, were, according to his own doctors, the same hits slowly dismantling the man underneath the highlight reel, one Sunday at a time, for years before anyone could see it happening.
And Gale Sayers did not go quietly. That same September, the same month as the diagnosis, he did something almost no legend of his generation had dared to do. He sued the National Football League itself. The lawsuit said the league had negligently handled his head injuries, that he’d been sent back into games after concussions, that the sport had known more than it ever told the men playing it.
The fastest man the league had ever seen, already losing pieces of his own memory, stood up one last time. Not to run, but to point a finger at the game that made him. Months later, he joined six other former players and filed again. Whatever the courts would eventually decide, the statement had been made.
He would not forget quietly. The family kept the diagnosis itself private for four years, quietly managing something they didn’t yet know how to explain to the public. When Ardyth finally spoke openly in 2017, it wasn’t to seek sympathy or headlines. It was to correct rumors that had already started circulating about her husband’s condition, and to be honest, for the first time, about what families like hers were actually living through behind closed doors.
By then, Sayers could no longer reliably sign his own name. The same hand that had carried a football through NFL defenses for five brilliant seasons. His brother Roger said it plainly, in words that have stayed with people who read them. “It’s hard to spend your whole life building memories, and then one day realize you don’t remember any of them.
” Ardith used old game films and jigsaw puzzles, trying patiently, day after day, to coax fragments of her husband’s own history back to the surface. Some days it worked, just barely. Most days it didn’t work at all. Roger also admitted something even harder to say out loud in public, that as his brother’s memory failed, certain people with far less character than Gale Sayers had found ways to quietly take advantage of him.
The fastest man the NFL had ever measured, a man once impossible to catch, had become, in the cruelest possible way, one of the easiest people in the world to catch off guard. In 2019, at the Chicago Bears 100th anniversary celebration, Gale Sayers made his final public appearance. He came in a wheelchair. Teammates and admirers who hadn’t seen him in years said goodbye without saying the word.
On September 23rd, 2020, he died at home from complications of dementia and Alzheimer’s disease. He was 77. Dick Butkus, the linebacker drafted one pick ahead of him 55 years earlier, the man who spent a career trying and failing to tackle him in practice, put it simply, “We lost one of the best Bears ever. And more importantly, we lost a great person.
” What makes this ending almost unbearable isn’t just that a legend forgot his own legend. It’s what the forgetting couldn’t touch, no matter how far it spread. Long before the diagnosis, long before the cameras and the trophies and the banquet halls, Gale Sayers had already written the only sentence that truly mattered to him, the one that gave his own memoir its name, the one he had lived by since he was a young man who just learned exactly what it cost to lose a friend.
“The Lord is first, my friends are second, and I am third.” Dementia could take the memory of the speech that made him famous. It could take his own name out of his own hand. It could take the trophy, the stage, the room full of men who once wept for him. It never once touched the order he’d already put his whole life in, decades before anyone in that ballroom was watching.
That’s how this story ends. Not with a highlight, not with a trophy, but with a humility so complete that even losing absolutely everything else couldn’t undo it. This was the final chapter of a trilogy. Brian Piccolo, Ernie Davis, and Gale Sayers. Three men football tried to remember only for their touchdowns.
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